RICHMOND Virginia
My conventional options are simple and based on the idea that getting to know each other is more the point than not.
The sweet spot? Let’s start with a cocktail or two, building that a little bubble that’s just us. Then we walk down the hall and shut the door, usually laughing, with the Do Not Disturb sign out. Now truly in our own world, satisfying pleasure can be created, followed by sweet afterglow. This is the escape you’ve been needing, a little rejuvenating me-time that’s tailor-made for the male psyche.
Even better? A lingering dinner, bonding over food, often getting to mutually experience dishes we haven’t had before. The exploration begins with pre-dinner cocktails, ending later with soft music and soft sheets, one light illuminating the room, city lights outside the window. Clocks don’t exist in this world at all, neither do co-worker’s interrupting phone calls, traffic, or much of anything to remind you of the usual daily grind.
Lunch just doesn’t hit the same way, though a getaway in the middle of the day still has appeal, precisely because you’re playing hooky from your desk and phone calls. And it’s early enough that whoever leaves first won’t have to battle traffic.
Moments of breathlessness are a fragile thing, anything more than a whisper and they vanish.
I’m based in Richmond
You can have me drive to you, of course.
If you’re in Richmond, an incall is available for any option, given enough lead-time (and the dreaded hotel gap doesn’t exist here). Otherwise, you are responsible for booking a hotel room if one is needed. I cover that further in my Client Guide.
Richmond and its closest suburbs are my home base. Short Pump, North Chesterfield, Glen Allen and downtown are all in easy reach for me.
If my driving time is more than 30 minutes one way, then it becomes a DriveMeToYou and a surcharge for time applies. Details are below my standard Richmond rates.
For the next several months, I’ll be making day trips to the Raleigh area. If you’d like to know those dates, sign up for my NC Tours newsletter at the bottom of the page.
These trips aren’t a tour, so I won’t have a private space booked. If you want to catch me in Raleigh, contact me well in advance of my next travel date so we can plan. There’s no DMTY charge, but hosting is your responsibility. My rates remain the same.
RVA Rates
INVESTMENT
An investment in your me-time, an investment in my life. Boundless ROI for both of us, one hopes.
one hour
RVA Incall
$650
Let’s meet! Without hotel hours.
deposit
200
stay in
assumed
extra time?
extensions unavailable
The Sweet Spot
two hours + cocktails
$1000
The perfect arrangement, IMO. Relaxation, connection, the right amount of privacy.
deposit
200
stay in
+500
extra time?
+300 per hour
four hours +
a meal
$1600
Let’s be foodies. A real date, hopefully without nerves.
deposit
300
stay in
+1000
extra time?
+300 per hour
bespoke
6hr +
$2000+
Suggest a fun, custom itinerary! Let’s do stuff!
deposit
400
stay in
Not the point.
extra time?
$250 per hour (beyond six)
DMTY
Charlottesville
+200
Deposit: 300
Viriginia Beach
+400
Deposit: 400
Williamsburg
+200
Deposit: 300
Washington DC
+600
Deposit: 500
Raleigh/Durham, NC
+1000
Deposit: 500
Roanoke
+1000
Deposit: 500
You have a Q?
I might be able to provide you with an A. If not, the Client Guide probably covers it.
I mention conversation a lot. It’s how we learn about each other, and when I ask a question of you I genuinely want to know. If you prefer impersonal and cheap, I might be more disconcerting [and expensive] than you want.
Honesty is a very expensive gift. Don’t expect it from cheap people.
Warren Buffett
News, of a sort
Updates shall slowly continue until morale improves. Better than flogging, right? At least for most of you.
Fans of morale-boosting floggings have to wait a month. I’m sorting that out for a proper start.
Basic
More
The Itinerary
What’s going on, and when. RVA announcements, and any touring news.
While I have no official tours scheduled, I will be visiting Raleigh regularly for 2024, should you wish to subscribe to the VA and NC Tours newsletter for those dates and details.